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- 1 (2021-02-13 (土) 01:51:47)

Weekday evenings: I’d come home first, pick up the kids from day care and after-school care, cook dinner, give them baths. Some nights I’d read to them and tuck them into bed before my wife came home. Other nights, she’d do that and I’d retire early. Either way, I went to sleep while my wife stayed up late. (Let me say for the record, it was miserable having a wife stay out late every night. She wasn’t hanging out in bars, she usually worked late. But she did have a social life with other adults, something I sorely lacked. I guess there’s always one “fun parent” in divorce.) Weekends: we’d take turns spending the day with the kids, sometimes leaving town without the other parent. As for sleeping, we didn’t have an extra room, so my wife and I stayed in the same bed. Though for the amount we touched each other, we could have been on different continents. A buddy of mine took a different approach to living separated under one roof while going through his divorce. He moved his family into a condo that had shared common rooms but a separate entrance for each bedroom. He and his wife slept in totally different ends of the condo, behind locked doors, which meant he could date and bring women home while living in the same place as his wife. Crazy, but it worked for him. (Yes, some single dads are womanizers and partiers. That doesn’t mean we all are.) I will say, once my wife and I acted on our divorce, and I moved out, and we told the kids – our kids were happy that the tension in the house was finally relieved. None of us wanted our family to collapse, but we all wanted a more peaceful home.