https://bit.ly/3LeICnx https://bit.ly/3xpkj0i https://bit.ly/3eWuumU https://bit.ly/3Lkpy7d https://bit.ly/3xr6eiT https://bit.ly/3xqtr4J https://bit.ly/3dkqjR5 https://bit.ly/3Li96o7 The main point here is that it does not have to be up to the sexually submissive woman to initiate this exploration of dominance and submission. Nor should it be. It ruins all the fun if she has to ask him to dominate her. If she's looking for a dominant man who is willing and able to make her submit, then she will want him to be a real man, and to take the lead on that right from the start. Of course, there are also some subtle hints that a sexually submissive woman can drop, that don't involve just coming right out and asking the man to dominate her. But I guess that's a topic for another post. The thing is, I think many men greatly underestimate the portion of women who have a deep submissive streak - just because the man never works up the courage to explore that, and because submissive women rarely want to have to ask to be dominated. (And because some of them are not even consciously aware yet of their deep need for sexual submission to a dominant man.) I think if more men were willing to start exploring this in a safe and gentle way, then they would be surprised by how many submissive women are out there. by DeeMarie? on 2004 Dec 22 - 07:26 | reply to this comment Putting it Out There I understand about not wanting to ask to be dominated. I am only sexually submissive and only part of the time, but I absolutely hate to ask for a spanking. I was speaking of the more subtle ways, but, there are other methods as well. You could put up a personal ad stating you are submissive and what you are looking for but that is not the same as looking a man in the eye and telling him you want to be dominated. By the time he meets you he will know that. There are also BDSM groups that hold munches. You may not think you are interested in BDSM but if you look into it, perhaps in certain ways you are. Anyhow you will meet dominant men there and one of them might be the one for you. "Pat" by "Pat" on 2004 Dec 23 - 04:43 | reply to this comment You can't ask to be dominated (or to dominate) There is a similar article about what it means to be "submissive" and here is the same answer. |